Things to Consider When Purchasing a Monument or Grave Stone for Placement in a Cemetery
- Jeff Nelson
- Sep 22
- 3 min read
Updated: Oct 8
Every cemetery has its own rules and requirements
Choosing a monument, headstone, or marker is a meaningful decision—and one that comes with important practical considerations. Every cemetery has its own rules and requirements, and those details will guide what you can and cannot do. Taking time to ask the right questions early will help you avoid surprises and ensure that your monument is placed smoothly and respectfully.
1. Understand the Cemetery’s Marker and Gravestone Rules and Regulations
Cemeteries vary widely in what they allow. Some have very open policies, while others are more restrictive regarding the size, shape, or style of stones. Before selecting your monument or urn, check directly with the cemetery. They can provide you with a written list of their guidelines so you know what is permitted.
2. Decide on Size and Style
The first step is choosing the style of memorial—flat marker, upright monument, companion stone, or urn marker. From there, you’ll need to confirm the size requirements. Even if you already have something in mind, the cemetery’s regulations will determine whether your choice is allowed.
3. Footing or Foundation Requirements
Nearly all cemeteries require a concrete footing or pad to ensure that the monument remains stable over time. Ask the cemetery whether they provide this service themselves or if you will need to arrange for a contractor. Be sure to clarify the required depth and dimensions, since these can vary.
4. Delivery and Setting Services
Heavier markers and grave stones often require special equipment to unload and install. Some cemeteries handle this as part of their service; others expect families to hire a monument-setting contractor. If outside help is needed, the cemetery can usually recommend someone they work with regularly.
5. Know the Fees Involved
From foundation work to setting and maintenance, there may be additional fees beyond the cost of the monument itself. Don’t hesitate to ask for a complete breakdown so you understand the full picture before making your purchase.
6. Communicate Early and Often
Most cemeteries are more than willing to help guide you through the process—as long as you reach out first. By discussing your plans with them and making sure you understand their rules, you’ll ensure a smoother experience and avoid unnecessary delays.
A Note About Cost and Convenience
Many monument companies will bundle the entire process—including ordering, footing, and installation—into one package. This can be very convenient, especially if you prefer a hands-off approach. However, it’s important to know that substantial cost savings and more design options are often available when you order directly from the monument manufacturer or engraver. In that case, the tips above will help you confidently handle the cemetery’s requirements while still getting a custom memorial at the best possible value.
Cremation Is Now More Popular Than Conventional Burials
According to the National Funeral Directors Association, U.S. cremation rates reached 65% in 2023. "The rising number of cremations can be attributed to changing consumer preferences, weakening religious prohibitions, cost considerations, and environmental concerns."
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At Bolt Laserworks, we believe a memorial is more than stone—it’s a lasting tribute to a life well lived. Our team of skilled artisans will work closely with you to design a custom monument, marker, or urn that reflects your wishes while helping you navigate cemetery requirements. We provide free proofs to ensure your complete satisfaction before any work is permanently etched
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